Wednesday 19 September 2012

I'm in Love with EVERYONE in Hollywood

My last exam is tomorrow. The weather is beautiful and hot. I'm on the verge of going over my daily post limit on Tumblr - again. This morning I swallowed my new red tongue ring (just the top barble though - not the whole thing): what a sad state of affairs. Red is my thang.

Me in the sun. It's my best friend, today.

Life is good.

After watching Suits yesterday for the first time, I just had to share my little "list" with you because I fell in love with Harvey Spector - played by Gabriel Macht. I remember watching him along side Mandy Moore in Because I Said So. Even then he was gorgeous and now he plays a lawyer - oh baby, baby.

If you haven't watched Friends before - get out of my face. Just kidding - but go watch it. If you have watched it - I love you. Do you remember the one episode when Ross and Rachel spoke about their "List"? It was a list holding the names of celebrities that he or she could... as you would say - get together with - if they ever got the chance and their partner couldn't get mad. Johnathan and I have one, too.

Without further adieu, my list:


  • Gabriel Macht
  • Ryan Gosling
  • Jake Gyllenhaal 
  • Jared Leto


Oh baby, baby.  I would sell my family for these men. (Hi mom). Also: anyone with an Irish accent - and maybe Andrew Garfield, too - not when he smiles though. His smile is a tad creepy. Maybe I could just close my eyes.

Have you seen the video of that little girl on Youtube who cries because she loves Justin Bieber so much? I almost reached that level of desperation the other night after watching Ryan Gosling in Crazy, Stupid, Love.

I am almost never this pathetic but there comes a time for everything, does there not?
I'll get Johnathan to give me his list for my next post.

Who's on your list?

Monday 17 September 2012

My I-Don't-Care-Attitude, its Positive Outcomes and Two Years-Worth of Dating

*creeps back into the blogosphere as if I never left*

It's been a crazy couple of weeks. After my third week of exams during which I had an exam every single day - I stopped caring. I, instead, continued to enjoy my life as if exams did not exist. This is a very bad attitude, I am aware - when finals come around (in a month's time) I will get my head screwed on again. For now - it is rolling off into the distance and I'm quite content with this.

Since the last time I was serious about life a few things have happened.

I got a tongue ring.
Minutes after I got it - excuse the blood.

The other day - tongue is back to normal.

I've never wanted a tongue ring - ever, but I've been holding up a risk-taking-attitude and along with Samantha Ross - you can find her blog here - we made a deal to get one together. If it wasn't for her and the rest of my terrible friends (nudge nudge, wink wink) that wouldn't let me back out - I would have dropped out of the deal like the weakling I am! However, as you can see, I did go through with it. I promised my family I would take it out after VAC in December but I'm pretty much in love with it now so... yeah. That's not happening.

The following night I went out with friends, and because we went to the place where I bartended a couple of times, I scored so many free drinks thanks to being friends with the bartenders, and from the people I met when I was bartending. It was a wonderful night, as one can imagine - the best I have had in a long time.

The next day I took what turned out to be a mini-roadtrip with Samantha to Pretoria. After seeing the Matric Dance dress of a girl I know, I decided I no longer liked mine, and would go off in search of the shop from which she hired her dress. Sam is actually awful with directions. Simply awful. After traveling on the highway for a while, I felt as if we had just gone too far. Sam told me to take the next off-ramp which led us to Centurion. I pulled off in the parking lot of the closest shopping center to call the shop assistant with whom I had the appointment. She told me to get back onto the highway and take the Ryder off-ramp. It turns out I didn't know how to get back onto the same highway continuing into Pretoria, so we ended up traveling back to Johannesburg until I gave in and canceled my appointment. Continuing on the highway back home - I, again, felt that I had gone too far. We took the next off-ramp  and landed up by Home Affairs. Only once I had gotten hold of the GPS on my iPad did we find ourselves safely back at home. That day I saw many new areas of Gauteng I wouldn't have seen without Sam.

I went to Melrose Arch a couple of times - once with a friend and once with my mom. It's honestly a mini-city. When my friend Jhayde told me that, I assume she meant it was just so big it could be considered a mini-city. But no - when I entered the premises I felt as if I was in London, just with a lot less people. It has little traffic lights, pedestrian crosses and even a High Street. It's huge. I loved it. I could go wild there. I'm planning on spending a day there this coming weekend - last minute Matric Dance purchases, you see. On the way back from my first visit to Melrose Arch, I didn't take any off-ramp and continued on going towards the airport. The highway is a horrible, bastard thing.

I saw The Dark Knight Rises yesterday - finally! It was brilliant. The twists made me so happy - mainly the last two.

The final item of news: today is my boyfriend's and my second year anniversary. (Go us!) In honour of this, I thought I'd share a couple of stories from our two years together.


  • The first time I flew to Cape Town to visit him, we spent the day being tourists in the heart of Cape Town. We went to Camps Bay for lunch, but before lunch we went for a walk on the beach. When the weather in Cape Town is good - it is beautiful. We took our tops off to tan a bit while we walked. But alas, we forgot about the wind that exists at the beach. It was fairly high and mighty that day and was blowing sand into us - so hard that it stung like a [insert a selection of bad words here]. We ran to the nearest covering of rocks to get away from it - not that it helped until we got our tops back on. I'm crying from laughter as I write this.
  • During the same holiday - and maybe the same day - we went on the Red Bus Tour which is exactly what it says - a tour you book to go on at the waterfront. There is a red or a blue bus that will take you on different routes around Cape Town. You can get on and off, as long as you present your ticket whenever you get back on the bus. We got off in the center of town - near Long Street and we got completely lost. Johnathan studied a map while I giggled on the side.
  • I have a problem with following other people. When I am not concentrating when I'm driving, I will follow the car in front of me. In December, Johnathan and I went to London together. He left before I did, and I dropped him off at the airport. We took the underground tubes, you see. We had to get off at a station to change trains, and because I wasn't concentrating, I got off the tube and following the man in front of me directly onto the next tube. Johnathan followed suit and was not amused when we discovered we were heading in the wrong direction because I had taken the wrong train.
More stories include small things like drunken phone calls, playstation sessions in which I am either watching Johnathan play FIFA or I am playing with him and getting angry at the fact that I cannot play it to save my life, watching chick-flicks in which Johnathan can get quite worked up, so many restaurant dates because all we do when we are together is eat. When Johno is tired, he gets quite energetic (the logic escapes me) and annoying. So annoying that you can't be around him. However, because I'm his girlfriend and we're in a long distance relationship, when I am with him in his tired/energetic state, I'm forced to stay put. This leads to him covering me in blankets to make me claustrophobic, wrestling me so much that I get too hot or it hurts which in turns leads to me elbowing him in the nose and giving him a blood-nose. It's all very romantic you see.

I got these today:


Lucky girl, no? Happy Second Year Anniversary, baby.

I've amused myself writing this post. Thank you, blogosphere.

Updated:
I started a Tumblr blog today - is that what you say? Tumblr blog? Anyway, I went into one of my frenzies, and I exceeded my daily post limit. You can find the page here because it WASN'T ALL FOR NOTHING.

Saturday 1 September 2012

Another Exam-Frenzy...

... what?! I mean... tooootally studying...

I started yoga yesterday at a place called the Haum of Yoga. I've seen the sign post for it, and I've been dying to try it out - I just never got around to it until my fitness-health-freak-of-a-best-friend got us both up off our lazy asses. I loved it, and although I can't feel it as much as she can this morning, I can feel the stretch in my legs when I walk. Or wash. In the shower. Anyway...



So here's a question I have for all you bloggers who have spent the majority of your independent life traveling - how do you do it?

I currently have ten blogs bookmarked that are all about travel, and each belongs to a twenty-something blogger and those are only the ones I have bookmarked - I have visited so many others! They all travel, and have been doing so for a while. It is my ultimate dream to travel all over the world - and that's not exaggeration. I've travelled before - sure. I've been to:


  • England (more than a few times)
  • France (on a school-tour in 2009)
  • Australia
  • Zambia (I lived there)
  • Zimbabwe (obviously - I was born there)
  • Monaco (spent the day there on French tour in 2009 as mentioned above)
  • Tanzania (beautiful)
  • Mauritius


Thus, it is fair to say that I have travelled, but not as I would like to travel. I feel like I'm acting like a spoilt-kid but, firstly, because I haven't ever been old enough to really take in my surroundings. I went to France when I was fifteen, and I always say that I wish I had gone when I was older.

The problem is that all these holidays were because of my dad's hard-work which provided us with the money to travel and for that I am eternally grateful. But I'm not going to be living off my dad's money forever. Next year I move into my own apartment, I start my first year studying at a tertiary institution and I start my own independent life. I have a small job now as a part-time driver for a friend's brother, and it pays well and I'm saving the money for (a new idea of mine that I came up with the other day) a holiday to Brazil in 2014 for the FIFA World Cup (before I was just saving because I can) - but it hardly allows me an annual holiday of my own. But here I read about people who live in a different city every year, or will travel to multiple countries within a year.

Perhaps one of the most inspiring people I look up to is Adventurous Kate, someone I have been following for a while now. She travels the world for six months, and lives at home in England for another six months. Or another - someone I just found today - Expat Edna who lives in a different city every year while maintaining a career, and being engaged to someone who doesn't even travel with her.

My other concern is also what career path to take. I get bored very easily, my back gets sore when I sit for too long and I hate routine. I am studying fitness next year - it's an amazing course - which will allow me to work on cruise ships if I choose to go that route, but I want to go on to study and graduate with a degree. I'm interested in law, marketing, fitness, health, beauty, nutrition - general wellbeing. But what will allow me to travel? And as a student - how do you earn enough money to travel the world as I have read in so many blogs?

Perhaps I am looking in the wrong place. As a student-traveler, I know it won't be a life of luxury and I'm not looking for that. I am looking for experience, people and culture - not a huge hotel bed in which you can find yourself lost in its fluffy, white duvet. If the experience, people and culture means I have to sleep in a dorm with other travelers and sacrifice meals - I welcome it whole-heartedly.

There is a world out there that I have no choice but to see before my dying-day. I crave it. So, I ask you, how do you do it?



In other news: today marked the first day of Spring in South Africa and I love it. I love the sun and I could spend all day in it. I have spent the morning in it, but unfortunately it is distracting me from my studies. First World Pains.



And on that note - back to the books.

(And just for a bit of extra information - that photo on being 22, physically fit and hungry? Yeah. I had to dig through 1777 photo's on my iPad to find that. 1777!!!!! Courtesy of my 9GAG obsession - that was your first guess, right?)
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